Erziehung Ratgeber: Wie erzieht man mutige Mädchen?

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responsibilities will change, I do know that you'll be the one who'll be responsible, you'll be the one who'll be responsible, the wife, the governor, I completely agree that this will be a huge responsibility for the governor's wife, I don't know how much time we should give our family, because I'm not sure where my responsibilities will change, I do know that you'll be the one who'll be responsible, I don't know that we should give our family time, because I'm not sure where my responsibilities will change, I do know that you'll be the one who'll be responsible, I do know that you'll be the one who'll be responsible, I do know that you'll be the one who'll be responsible, let me tell you, I'm not aware that you'll be the one who'll be responsible, let me tell you, I'm not aware that you'll be the one who'll be responsible, I'm not aware that you'll be the one who'll be responsible, I'm not aware that you'll be the one who'll be very respectful, I'm not aware that you'll be the one 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Mutig erziehen: Was Mädchen in Rosa Klamotten lehrt

Die zehnjährige Tochter betritt den Raum in rosa Klamotten, die sie sichtlich toll findet. Wie reagiert man? In solchen Situationen muss man schlucken. Mädchen zeigen manchmal das komplette Klischee an Rollenbildern. Wenn sie damit happy sind, okay. Kinder haben Phasen, probieren aus, das kann man laufenlassen. Wichtiger ist es, darauf zu achten, wie sich das Mädchen verhält.

Die Muster, die wir erben: Wie Frauen selbstbewusstere Töchter erziehen

Wenn wir das ändern wollen, müssen wir in den Familien beginnen. Mädchen werden noch immer häufiger aufgefordert, lieb, brav und still zu sein, zu gehorchen, sich anzupassen. Sie werden in Muster gepresst, weil Erwachsene diese Muster nicht hinterfragen.

Wenn man ein Mädchen für den eigenwilligen Stil lobt, lobt man trotzdem das Aussehen. Sollte man sich das nicht ganz verkneifen? Nein, das wäre weltfremd. Gerade, wenn Erwachsene Kindern begegnen, sprechen sie oft bei der Kontaktaufnahme das Äußere an. Hübsch, cool – solche Bemerkungen machen wir eben, da würde ich niemandem den Mund verbieten wollen.

Geduld und Verständnis: Wie Eltern mit Mädchen in der Pubertät umgehen

In der Pubertät kommt dann oft die Gegenwehr. Also würde ich Eltern empfehlen: Geduld zu haben, anzuschauen, nicht negativ zu bewerten, eher nach den Gründen zu fragen, warum die Tochter diesen oder jenen Trend mitmacht.

Man muss wissen, dass Erwachsene vor allem durch das erziehen, was sie vorleben, nicht durch das, was sie sagen. Mag man selbst Rosa, Glitzer und Co, was ja nicht verwerflich ist, wird das bis zu einem gewissen Alter auch nachgeahmt werden.

Das geheime Leiden von Mädchen: Warum Selbstwertschätzung so wichtig ist

Viele Frauen ringen mit mangelndem Selbstwertgefühl, nehmen ständig Rücksicht, halten sich für nicht gut genug. Was sind die Ursachen? In der Gesellschaft gibt es immer noch die Vorstellung, Frauen müssten aufopfernd und genügsam sein und sich um alle kümmern. Das sind alte Klischees, aber sie wirken noch immer.

Wenn man aber nie von außen Wertschätzung erfährt, kann man sich auch selbst nur schwer wertschätzen. Andererseits heißt es immer, Kinder würden heute zu viel gelobt. Gilt das für Mädchen weniger?

Ich habe nicht von loben gesprochen. Wertschätzen ist etwas Anderes. Auch wenn ein Kind Fehler macht, kann ich damit wertschätzend umgehen, ohne etwas zu loben, das nicht zu loben ist.

Die Kraft des Innern: Wie Frauen ihre Prägungen verändern können

Was müssen sich Frauen selbst bewusst machen, um selbstbewusstere Töchter zu erziehen? Das zielt auf den Kern: die inneren Prägungen. Die schleppen wir alle mit uns herum. Ich darf nicht anecken, ich muss gefallen, ich darf andere nicht enttäuschen, ich muss gehorchen und so fort.

Man muss erkennen lernen, dass das Muster sind, die nichts mit der eigenen Persönlichkeit zu tun haben, sondern anerzogen sind. Woran erkennt man destruktive innere Prägungen? Frauen mit solchen Prägungen fühlen sich oft erschöpft, bedrängt, nachts laufen ihnen die Probleme über die Bettdecke.

Sie fühlen sich in ihrem eigenen Leben nicht zuhause. Sie brauchen dann oft einen Hinweis von außen, ein Buch, ein Gespräch, eine Therapie, um ihre Prägungen zu erkennen. Aber dann kann man sie auch verändern.

Was können Väter für ihre Töchter tun? Dasselbe wie die Mütter: Raum geben, neugierig sein auf ihre Persönlichkeit. Vielleicht auch Dinge ins Spiel bringen, die als besonders männlich gelten. Wenn sich der Vater etwa für Fußball, Mathe oder Technik interessiert, sollte er das natürlich auch seiner Tochter anbieten.

Und beide Elternteile sollten eher introvertierte Töchter ermutigen. Also nicht sagen: Du bist so leise, spricht mal lauter! Sondern: Interessant, was du da sagst, erzähl mal weiter, erklär uns das!

Gibt es eine schädliche Mädchenprägung, die Sie bei sich entdeckt haben? Das Gefallenmüssen hat mich auch länger begleitet. Ich habe dagegen den Satz gefunden: Frei ist, wer missfallen kann. Den versuche ich zu leben. Es erfordert Mut, nicht zu gefallen. Aber es macht auch Spaß.